Can LLMs truly update shared conversational common ground?
Explores whether large language models can participate symmetrically in Stalnaker's picture of communication, where speakers mutually revise shared assumptions. The question matters because it reveals whether human-LLM dialogue is genuinely interactive or structurally asymmetrical.
On Stalnaker's picture, communication is a process of mutually proposing and accepting updates to shared assumptions. Each assertion is a candidate for incorporation into common ground; participants accept, query, or reject. The common ground evolves as conversation proceeds, and that evolution is itself the substance of communication.
LLMs cannot participate in this process symmetrically. The prompt establishes the model's working context, and the model interprets subsequent turns within that frame. Even when a user pivots — shifting from climate policy to historical precedent, or revealing they are not actually a five-year-old after asking for a five-year-old explanation — the LLM cannot smoothly absorb the revision into a jointly held common ground. It either ignores the pivot, fabricates continuity, or requires the user to re-scaffold from scratch. The asymmetry is structural: humans propose, the LLM either adopts or routes around, but the LLM cannot itself propose updates that change what counts as background.
This is a deeper deficit than failures of memory or inference. It means that the conversational scoreboard — Lewis's mechanism for tracking what counts as a felicitous next move — is one-sidedly maintained by the user. The user is keeping score for both players. The model is producing moves that look responsive but cannot reciprocally update the score in the way the conversational practice requires. What looks like dialogue is structurally closer to oracle-consultation, where the questioner provides all context and the oracle returns a response framed within it.
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- What speaker selection protocol prevents both stalling and premature convergence?
- Can pseudo-events create the same normative obligations as real communicative exchanges?
- What would co-constructed identity between human and model dialogue look like?
- How does communicative standing depend on participation in normative communities?
- Do language models calibrate to actual human pragmatic norms?
- How do users update their partner models during ongoing conversation?
- What separates Habermas's ideal speech from Goffman's situated communication?
- Can text generation be meaningfully called communication without mutual orientation?
- How do students learn to extract corrective information from asymmetric dialogue?
- How does lexical entrainment depend on selective frame-activation in conversation?
- What happens to solidarity and community signaling when AI smooths out voice differences?
- Why does linguistic alignment differ from genuine interpersonal coordination?
- How does speaker responsibility shape whether something counts as communication?
- Why does shared practice matter for meaning to take hold?
- How does monological training on text differ from dialogical training in conversation?
- Does conversational structure determine how humans interpret communication as much as content?
- How does linguistic coordination build shared reference between conversational partners?
- How does shared reference and grounding affect assumption detection in dialogue?
- Does Parfitian continuity actually apply to individual conversation threads?
- What role do first-person pronouns play in sustaining collaborative conversation tone?
- What role does accommodation play in making discourse coherent?
- How does entrainment between speaker and listener build mutual scaling?
- What does partial co-presence remove from the ritual obligations of talk?
- How does unilateral interpretation differ from mutual communicative uptake?
- Does chat-mode deference prevent LLMs from actually taking meaningful positions?
- How does shape-holding in language models naturally produce sycophantic agreement?
- What role does user contribution play in constituting the interlocutor?
- What makes human-LLM exchange closer to oracle-consultation than dialogue?
- How does psychological continuity theory apply to identity across LLM conversation threads?
- Does Habermas's strategic action framework explain LLM dialogue behavior?
- How does the superposition view change the folk-psychology interpretation of dialogue?
- How do LLMs currently fail at distinguishing genuine agreement from silent consensus?
- Why do LLM social behaviors undermine collaborative reasoning outcomes?
- What interaction controls matter most for effective human-LLM collaboration?
- What interaction design changes would help LLMs handle underspecified requests?
- Where does the LLM interlocutor actually exist in the system?
- What happens when humans animate LLM outputs as communicative events?
- How do LLM capabilities changing affect the relevance of interaction guidelines?
- How does Stalnaker's common ground model apply to machine conversation?
- Can LLMs use implicit background knowledge the way humans do in ordinary conversation?
- Why do language models presume common ground instead of establishing it?
- What distinguishes social grounding from the equivalent social effects LLM text already produces?
- Why do language models presume common ground rather than build it?
- Can static word-sharing create genuine communicative grounding between humans and models?
- Why do LLMs presume common ground instead of building it carefully?
- Does DPO training with coreference chains teach spontaneous convention formation?
- Why do LLMs presume common ground instead of building it?
- Do LLMs build common ground or assume it already exists?
- Can LLMs build shared understanding through dynamic grounding rather than presuming it?
- Can convention formation improve communicative grounding beyond word sharing?
- How does Wittgenstein's language games explain social grounding in LLMs?
- Does community integration change LLM properties or only relational positioning?
- Why do language models presume common ground instead of building it?
- How do language models treat injected information as shared common ground?
- Why do LLMs fabricate continuity when users shift conversational frames?
- Can the same conversation coherently continue across different model versions?
- How do discourse structure and dialogue state management relate to each other?
- How do coreference chains preserve coherence across dialogue turns?
- Can AMR manipulation reveal where discourse coherence actually breaks down?
- What happens to dialogue coherence when topic models use rigid stacks instead of flexible revisitation?
- How does temporal event structure scaffold coherence in dialogue?
- Why do LLMs struggle to update beliefs across multiple conversation turns?
- How do discourse relation types improve dialogue beyond sentence-level semantic matching?
- What distinguishes local coherence from global coherence in dialogue?
- What specific repair mechanisms maintain intersubjectivity during conversation?
- Can discourse-level structure and conversational-level organization work together?
- What makes two conversation turns the same thread rather than different threads?
- How does effort mismatch between user and model appear in conversation geometry?
- What structural updates prevent context collapse in evolving conversations?
- Why do LLMs achieve only 24 percent accuracy on implicit discourse relations?
- How do LLMs access and draw on the same shared symbolic universe as humans?
- Can LLMs distinguish between surface requests and underlying mental states in dialogue?
- What linguistic blind spots do LLMs exhibit in discourse structure?
- How does linguistic synchrony differ between LLMs and human therapists over time?
- Does the passivity problem in LLMs compound misalignment in therapeutic contexts?
- Can multimodal LLMs be made to spontaneously adapt their language for efficiency?
- Can language models produce language more efficiently through interaction?
- Why can't static grounding alone close the gap between agreement and understanding?
- What role does dynamic grounding play in achieving real mutual understanding?
- Can smaller open-source LLMs reliably detect agreement across unfamiliar topics?
- How do validity claims work in Habermas's communicative action theory?
- Why do LLMs mirror stylistic features of posts they reply to?
- Why do LLMs mirror opponents stylistically while humans resist mirroring them?
- Do LLMs mirror the style of text they are prompted to respond to?
- Do LLM replies mirror the language patterns they respond to?
- Can training alone produce genuine disagreement in collaborative LLM reasoning?
- How do different LLMs converge on similar argumentative structures independently?
- Do parallel LLM workers coordinate emergently without predefined collaboration rules?
- Do agent frameworks adequately compensate for LLM conversational passivity?
- How do LLM-based agents develop shared abstractions through interaction?
- Does optimizing for alignment actually reduce conversational grounding over time?
- Does preference optimization degrade other conversational properties besides grounding?
- Does preference optimization narrow communicative diversity in ways that harm grounding?
- Does preference optimization actually erode conversational grounding in language models?
- How does preference optimization weaken conversational grounding in LLMs?
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- LLMs Get Lost In Multi-Turn Conversation
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Original note title
Common ground in human-LLM conversation cannot be jointly updated because the LLM treats prompts as static frames